John William DURHAM (1894–1916)
Some of this information is repeated from the previous entry for John’s brother James Frederick Durham
John William Durham was born in Headington in 1894, the son of George Edward Durham (born in Headington in the first quarter of 1866 and baptised at St Andrew’s Church on 4 December 1866) and Polly Escott, otherwise known as Mary (born in Melksham, Wiltshire in about 1862). Polly was working as a housekeeper at 5 Norham Road when she met John’s father, who was then a general labourer.
John’s parents were married at New Road Baptist Chapel on 3 August 1891, and had eight children, of whom the following were still alive in 1911:
- John William Durham (born in Headington on 2 April 1894)
- Ernest George Durham (born in Headington in 1895, registered second quarter)
- (Frederick) James Durham (born in Headington in 1896, registered third quarter)
- Ebenezer William Durham (born in Headington on 12 September 1900; later took Escott as a second middle name)
- Amy Ella Sophia Durham (born in Headington in 1901, registered fourth quarter).
The 1901 census shows the family living in Lime Walk with John (6), Ernest (5), James (4), and Ebenezer (6 months). John’s father was working as a bricklayer’s labourer.
By 1911 the family were living at 31 Holyoake Road (whose address was then 16 Western Road; the west side of this road was in Highfield parish). John’s father (45) was now a builder’s merchant’s porter and John himself (17) was a tobacconist’s porter. His brother Ernest (15) was a grocer’s porter, James (14) had no employment yet, and. Ebenezer (10) and Amy (9) were at school.
John’s mother Mary (Polly) Durham died at the age of 50 in 1914 (first quarter, Headington Registration District), and so was spared from seeing all four of her sons serve, and two die, in the first world war.
In the First World War John William Durham had volunteered with his next two brothers by March 1915 and served as a Private in the 2nd/4th Battalion of the Oxfordshire & Buckinghamshire Light Infantry (Service No. 4288). He died of wounds in France at the age of 23 on 11 October 1916.
He is buried in the Merville Communal Cemetery (I. A. 22) and is listed on the Roll of Honour of All Saints’ Church, Highfield.
The eldest three Durham brothers serving in 1915: John, Ernest, and James
Two of the Durham brothers survived the war. Ernest George Durham, who had been working a baker, enlisted as a volunteer in the Royal Marine Light Infantry on 21 September 1914. He served in Greece, and was discharged as invalided on 9 February 1917. Ebenezer William Escott Durham, who had been working as a porter, joined the navy as a ship’s cook on 17 September 1918, just after his 18th birthday. He was awarded the Victory and British War Medals while serving on the Calypso.
Postscript
John’s father
- George Edward Durham is listed at 36 Stapleton Road (“Charlbury Cottage”, formerly numbered 14) from 1926 to 1936. He died at the age of 71 in 1937 (death registered first quarter in the Oxford District). In his will of 5 February 1937 he left his estate to his daughter, Amy Sophia Ella Durham, who had probably looked after him following the death of his wife.
John’s siblings
- (Frederick) James Durham (born 1896) was also killed in the First World War: see separate page
- Ebenezer William Escott Durham (born 1900) remained in the Royal Navy after the war. He passed educationally for Petty Officer on 6 March 1923, and for Leading Cook on 30 April 1925. He re-engaged in the Navy on 25 January 1929. On 17 November 1933 he was awarded the RN Long Service and Good Conduct Medal while serving on the Pembroke. He married Olive Daisy A. Stevens in 1926 in the Weymouth registration district. Their son Kenneth W. Durham was born in 1930 (registered Weymouth district). They were living at 11 Turton Street, Weymouth at the time of their deaths (Olive on 10 December 1973, and Ebenezer on 24 February 1981).
See also
- CWGC: John William Durham
- Oxford Journal Illustrated, 10 March 1915, “Three brothers on active service”: photographs of John, Ernest, and James Durham (shown above with kind permission of Oxfordshire County Council, Oxfordshire History Centre)
- G. K. Rose, The story of the 2/4th Oxfordshire and Buckinghamshire Light Infantry (1920) Online here
- Wikipedia: Oxfordshire & Buckinghamshire Light Infantry